help!my boyfriend is doing voodoo

[doria_twilight]

i've noticed that he was a little strange a long time ago but never gave to much importance to it.i used to think: 'he's special, of course he is like this'. but lately i got to know him better and he is scaring me.i've noticed that if he finds hair fallen on my blouse he takes it,rolles it on his finger and puts it in his poket.at first i thought it was his strange romantic way of saying ' i love you'.but when i went to his place i discovered something really freaky.he left the room to bring something to drink.accidentally my earing fell on the floor and went under the bed.i bent down to get it and i saw under the bed some strange looking books and some magazines.at first i thought there were playboy magazines that he is hiding from his dad(what a clishe:D).anyway when i looked closer there were about black magic!i don't know were he has them from, i've never seen such things before.i didn't even know those things really existed cos i'm the realistic tipe and don't believe in silly stuff.anyway i heard him coming and i couldnot see too much.i said nothing as i was shocked.another time he came to my place and the window of my bedroom was open.it was windy outside so the curtains were moving because of it.he stared at them and he said:'don't you come in now!'.i was terrified!!again i could say nothing.after some time we had a fight about a male friend of mine whom he though i was cheating him with.he is very gelous.after the fight i didn't want to talk to him for some days.he desperately called home and came over to my place but no one let him in or answere his calls.one of those day ,looking out the window, i saw him staring at my dad's car that was parked just outsite our house.he had his back at me so i could not see what he was doing.he stayed ther for about 10 minutes not moving a muscle(from my perspective anyway), and then he left without ringing the doorbell or anything as he used to.later that evening dad had a car accident, thank god nothing happened!just the car was really trashed up.isn't this proof enough that he is doing something?am i paranoic?i need some outside oppinions.

a mans death is a tragedy but a millions..that's just a statistic.

[gerijuana]

Well if you think hes going to harm you in any way has he ever hit you if he did what the f*** are you doing with him, women always know when there somthing going on us guys cant figure you women out that damn women's Intuition[:0] quote:Whether thou art a ghost unburied[}:)]

[schizoCuRsEgirl.erghh]

hey its the same for girls, geri, we are as lost as you when it comes to the opposite sex- womens intution about men is just a myth (well, if its not, then why the hell dont i have it?!) give us a break!
doria- no, you arent being paranoid. you gotta sit him down and TALK to him. ask him why he doesnt trust you, and confront him about the voodoo. try to find out the truth. if he denys it all then he dont love you enough to be honest, so drop the loser. if he admits it- tell him you ARENT cheating and you DO still love him (thats if you really do, mind)so he has to stop endangering you/your family. if he doesnt ditch all the books, etc and the creepy manner then tell him where to get off. you cant put yourself or the ones you love in danger.

*my mate- "get the f**k up" he said, "your life is meaningless its going nowhere, your going nowhere, your just a f**k up" he said "i'll live alone instead, i know you dont care" i know i dont care*

[doria_twilight]

thanks!it'a aslo my fault that it has come to this. i never asked him. i am usually very direct but i couldn't ask him because i'm scared.i don't know, maybe i should ask him.i should give him a call and ask him to come and talk.

a mans death is a tragedy but a millions..that's just a statistic.

[schizoCuRsEgirl.erghh]

good move! the guys cannot supress us!

*"get the f**k up" he said, "your life is meaningless its going nowhere, your going nowhere, your just a f**k up" he said "i'll live alone instead, i know you dont care" i know i dont care*

[doria_twilight]

indeed girl power is best! oh and by the way..u're from uk. i'd like to go there someday.

a mans death is a tragedy but a millions..that's just a statistic.

[schizoCuRsEgirl.erghh]

girl- you sure dont wanna. its always snow or rain here. or heatwaves once every 3 years. it snowed AND rained yesterday. if you do...go to The Lizard in Cornwall, its beautiful and sunny. and The Highlands in Scotland- the mountains and lochs are so beautiful. oh and go up Snowdon mountain in Wales on a train during December. that one YOU MUST DO. and come call on me in Northumberland and i'll take you to Allendale which is awesome scenery, and to Newcastle which has the best nightlife, and to a haunted hill near my house and a haunted castle called Chillingham which is offically the scariest place in Britain. oh and go to London, the architectere is amazing. Yeah and so is Edinburgh's castle in Scotland. oh and get the ferry from Wales over to Ireland and go to Croag Patrick the holiest mountain in County Kerry. oh second thoughts- i love my country!

*"get the f**k up" he said, "your life is meaningless its going nowhere, your going nowhere, your just a f**k up" he said "i'll live alone instead, i know you dont care" i know i dont care*

[doria_twilight]

i can see that! so if i'll come one day you will take me to that hounted hill you talked about? hm..i'm in for it!

a mans death is a tragedy but a millions..that's just a statistic.

[doria_twilight]

oh, just talked to my bf, he'll come over today. i'm scared but i have to talk to him. i'll tell you what happened.

a mans death is a tragedy but a millions..that's just a statistic.

[schizoCuRsEgirl.erghh]

yup sure will...well done. if anything bad happens get outa that house and go 2 a friend's and then come online and tell me...but im sure it wont. remember what Eleanor Roosevelt said-"nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent". he can only make you feel small and scared if you let him get away with it. good luck, girl. i may be thousands of miles and oceans away but in soul im there with ya! x

*"get the f**k up" he said, "your life is meaningless its going nowhere, your going nowhere, your just a f**k up" he said "i'll live alone instead, i know you dont care" i know i dont care*

[doria_twilight]

i talked to him.and he admitted that he has a passion for it.no that he is doing anything,just that he reads.vlad(his name),is very keen on creepy stuff.didn't know it by now.i just hald to talk to him to discover.he said that rolling my hair and keeping it in his poket was indeed his affextionate way of saying 'i love you'. and about the wind and the window-it was just a joke he said and that i freaked out for nothing.he said that inded if he would have been in my place he would have thought the same about me but that i was foolish not to ask.vlad admitted that he said nothing about his hobbie not to freak me out which he did anyway.he said that he was sorry and that he'll never hide anything from me again.oh...and about my dad's accident.he said that he remembered that day and he looked in the mirror of the window to see if he is as ugly as i said he was.(i said it just to hurt him).he is actually a hansome guy.it seem to have been just a coincidence.i asked him to get ridd of the book for my sake and better yet surf the net.books are very dangerous and harmfull( that's how i see it anyway).he called his cousin and decided to give the book back to him.still i do not know were Victor(his cousin) has them from.Not that i want to know anyway.thank god i got it threw with this.

a mans death is a tragedy but a millions..that's just a statistic.

[schizoCuRsEgirl.erghh]

im so proud of you. vlad (by the way- a typical vampire name in the middle ages!) seems a real nice guy....we all have our odd hobbies. im glad you guys are okay, and he must truly care about you to ditch all the voodoo. im sorry i doubted him. well done, i hope you are stronger after all this, and i will thank my ancestors tonight for watching over you!

*"get the f**k up" he said, "your life is meaningless its going nowhere, your going nowhere, your just a f**k up" he said "i'll live alone instead, i know you dont care" i know i dont care*

[doria_twilight]

thanks a lot! unfortunately school started again and a will be pretty busy.i'll be able to get on the net only on weekends.i hate school :(

a mans death is a tragedy but a millions..that's just a statistic.

[schizoCuRsEgirl.erghh]

hey im at school at the moment, and i go on either at school or when i get home. ps, totally with you on the hating school thing. i cut class more often than i cut my hair!

*and you probably don’t want to hear tomorrows another day
But I promise you you’ll see the sun again
And you’re asking me why pain’s the only way to happiness
And I promise you youll see the sun again*